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 # slaying moloch
 
 - an [[intent]]
-  - [[pull]] [[slay moloch]] 
-  - despite the gruesome picture it may evoke, it is actually about [[building bridges]] -- a constructive path to slaying [[moloch]]
+  - #pull I often say that I want to [[slay moloch]], but I mean it with [[loving kindness]] -- if they don't resist or turn violent, I'd rather [[disentangle]] them.
+  - despite the gruesome picture it may evoke, it is actually about [[building bridges]] -- a constructive path to [[disentangling moloch]]
   - recently [[reread]] [[meditations on moloch]]
     - it left an impression on me, but I was unsure about how representative the impression I currently have of it, mutated by time and experience, matched what's there
     - I couldn't say comfortably I knew it unless I reread it, and making Moloch a part of the [[Flancia]] narrative would be irresponsible without revisiting this source.