diff --git a/friend.md b/friend.md
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--- a/friend.md
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@@ -3,5 +3,6 @@
 - having a [[friend]] is a beautiful thing
   - a type of [[person]]
     - one of my [[favourites]]
-  - I usually tell people online explicitly when I consider them friends. I then try to mark them as [[friend]] in here, but I haven't done a great job at actually doing that and I haven't yet set up an automated process.
+  - I usually tell people online explicitly when I start considering them friends. I then try to mark them as [[friend]] in here, but I haven't done a great job at actually doing that and I haven't yet set up an automated process.
+- a [[list]]