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 - I've sometimes thought I could be an OK monk. Whether Buddhist or in more of a [[the name of the rose]] scenario, I'm unsure.
 - I'd like to meditate more, follow the [[middle way]] more, be awakened more often.
 - [[push]] [[january 2022]]
-  - during this month I'd like to try to behave a bit more like a monk: meditate more often, be more mindful, try to help others more, be conscious of how I invest my time towards a greater goal.
+  - during this month I'd like to try to behave a bit more like a monk: meditate more often, be more mindful, try to help others more, be conscious of how I invest my time towards a [[greater goal]].
+  - I still have a partner and a high standard of living, so I'm unlike a monk in some ways. I'm more of a "house holder" in Buddhist terms. but I'm not sure the distinction is super relevant.