diff --git a/friend.md b/friend.md
index e5dbf51bc..bab987218 100644
--- a/friend.md
+++ b/friend.md
@@ -1,12 +1,6 @@
 # Friend
 
-- I consider my friends to be in the [[agora]].
-- I usually tell people online explicitly when I consider them my friends. I then try to mark them as [[friend]] in here, but I haven't done a great job at actually doing that and I haven't yet set up an automated process.
-- [[todo]] [[automate]]
+- a beautiful [[person]]
+  - I like to think of all of my friends as being in [[flancia]], and specifically in the [[agora]].
+  - I usually tell people online explicitly when I consider them friends. I then try to mark them as [[friend]] in here, but I haven't done a great job at actually doing that and I haven't yet set up an automated process.
 
-
-[//begin]: # "Autogenerated link references for markdown compatibility"
-[agora]: agora "Agora"
-[friend]: friend "Friend"
-[todo]: todo "Todo"
-[//end]: # "Autogenerated link references"
\ No newline at end of file
diff --git a/journal/2021-04-19.md b/journal/2021-04-19.md
index f29577bd7..6ca5e354a 100644
--- a/journal/2021-04-19.md
+++ b/journal/2021-04-19.md
@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@
 - [[week 16]]
 - [[all together now]]
 - [[garment design with gans]]
+- [[friend]]
 - [[resonance]]
 - [[clipboard management]]
 - [[trees]]