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     + [[safety maximizing]] vs [[freedom maximizing]]
       + [[safety maximizing]] -> [[intentional relationships]]
       + should we kick off some proposals? which ones?
+    + three respects:
+        + the relationships
+        + the people who try to improve the system/work on it
+        + the notion of consent